Calling a man a bitch, meaning? (2025)

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GeogeHalin

Senior Member

HK-China

Japanese

  • Mar 19, 2014
  • #1

Hello members!

In crime movies, I often hear man calling another man a bitch, or even, a woman calling a man a bitch when they find that guy annoying or when they are angry.
Does it mean the word "bitch" can also mean 'a unpleasant, annoying man'? Because it is usually used to refer to a unpleasant woman?
Is it worse than 'douchebag' than?

I think we say "You're a bitch" to a man when a man is being a bitch, like a woman, if he were acting like a woman.
Is that a more accurate meaning of the word?

Please explain!
Thanks!

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  • cyberpedant

    Senior Member

    North Adams, MA

    English USA, Northeast, NYC

    • Mar 19, 2014
    • #2

    "Bitch" is often used as a derogatory term for a person considered to be of inferior status. "He's my bitch" means that I have complete control over him. Check the Urban dictionary for other opinions.

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    GeogeHalin

    Senior Member

    HK-China

    Japanese

    • Mar 19, 2014
    • #3

    So, it has nothing to do with implying the man is acting like an annoying woman? The word is used both gender?

    cyberpedant

    Senior Member

    North Adams, MA

    English USA, Northeast, NYC

    • Mar 19, 2014
    • #4

    "Bitchy" is more appropriate for "a man acting like an annoying woman." Slang evolves from day to day and words can acquire contradictory meanings. In general, when describing someone whom one doesn't like, "bitch" is more often used for a woman, "bastard" for a man. Obviously their original meanings have nothing to do with one another.

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    MattiasNYC

    Senior Member

    New York

    Swedish

    • Mar 19, 2014
    • #5

    I think that in many cases when it is said to a man with the intent of insulting him the emphasis isn't on the man actually acting like a woman, it's more about taking on a trait that is not considered to be "masculine". So if you say that a guy is acting like a bitch it may be that he is acting like a "coward", with the implication that men are more "brave" in the sense that they will engage in physically dangerous activities more often than women for example. So, it you see a couple of guys getting into a loud argument and one is walking backwards a bit to avoid a physical fight the other might call him a "bitch" for trying to avoid it. It's not that you'd think he looks like or acts like a woman per se.

    I also think it can be used very generically as an insult, almost like saying "you jerk/idiot/asshole" etc, or jokingly without intent to insult. In neither of those cases it is meant to be taken all that literally or to imply a feminine appearance. Of course I agree with cyberpedant that this type of slang varies greatly.

    bibliolept

    Senior Member

    Northern California

    AE, Español

    • Mar 19, 2014
    • #6

    Yes, "bitch" to refer to a man might be an intended affront to his masculinity or intended to suggest the man is somehow weak.

    There are any number of potential meanings though, and the word might simply be used as a generic insult, marking a thorough lack of respect for the person.

    cyberpedant

    Senior Member

    North Adams, MA

    English USA, Northeast, NYC

    • Mar 19, 2014
    • #7

    In my neck of the woods, the more commonly used insult to someone's masculinity is "pussy" or its derivative, "wuss."

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